…Unless you have lived it, it’s impossible for you to comprehend the brainwashing, physical and mental torture of a narcissist sociopath. And recovery is a process…it’s not overnight. It was far too many years of my life….20 years…2 different men…one was my husband of 15 years…the other my fiancé for 5 years. But no contact is the only way to begin unraveling the twisted mess they make of you and your life. My journey has been difficult at times but I will never give up or go back to this life. I am so blessed today…so thankful for all the help and wonderful people God has put in my path. I discovered Yourlifelifter one day on FB and it was perfect timing on my journey…thank you Evelyn for all you do to help people like me…your work has changed my life. F. K.