Thank you for your words of advice, as I am also going through the process of divorce with a narcissist, actually, I had the first court date with him last Friday… he didn’t show, it was frowned upon by the judge, (my narc reckons he is above the law) your tips on handling him in the future will certainly help me, as I am also in no contact. (he ignores our teenage children) but unfortunately I see a few court appearances in the future as he is hell bent on destroying me once again. Thank you for being here and giving us all support and hope for a brighter future. With regards, H. S.