Thank you again for a great advice re my cousin. She is offended and feels deserted. I kind of expected that. But not getting her disturbing messages is a relief. So true that we need to maintain no contact with toxic people. I started recognising them. She unfortunately not. I am happy that I removed my self. I hope the time will bring clearness and sense to her. I like your articles and posts on fb. Always so inspiring. All the best to you! A.B.